Propaganda and English

During the world wars German war machinery successfully manipulated the media (newspapers and radio) to rule over the greater Germany. Even this day counties like China tightly control what information/news reaches the public and what does not. If done properly and consistently over the years, this propaganda can successfully and dramatically change the beliefs, perception and the public opinion. Sometimes even to the extent that young german kids thought they were doing their parents a favor by reporting their activities to the Gestapo.
It was only now I have realized the importance of good education. The more one has access to international media (internet, newspaper, tv etc.) the more international languages one can read and write in, the harder it is for the government to poison and condition one’s mind.

Without access to international media and people with diverse opinions a person will not only be biased. What’s worse is that by accessing only the biased information they would reinforce their perception. Net result is that everybody has a different view about the same thing, yet they all will be convinced that this is the right view.

Video photography

I believe that video photography is a waste of time. Unless one hires a professional to record the moment, one of the family member would have to sacrifice him for the video. In order to get a good shoot the camera will have to keep rolling for the entire duration and that person would not be able to take part in the celebration. What’s worse is that even though it will be labeled as “My kid’s first step” in reality it would be like the 10th or the 15th step. This is because an amateur videographer typically has to witness a wow moment, break away and then go to retrieve the camera and request the people around to restage the entire sequence. Sometimes in their enthusiasm, people make hours and hours of video footage not realizing that most likely no one will ever watch the whole movie ever.

Still photography on the other hand leads only to a momentary disruption of the normal course of the party and the photographer can join the gang again. Also one can save, cherish and display the select portions of the zillion photos that were shot. Hence the chances that a particular photo is shared, preserved and viewed is more likely than an hour long video of a stupid birthday party.

Parents vs In-laws

Today a French girl who has Indian roots asked me:
“Why do Indian couples have so much distinction between the girl’s and the guy’s parents?”

I tried to bullshit my way through by giving her the historical reasons about this tradition etc. but she persisted and asked me:
“It is the responsibility of the sons to ensure that their parents are well taken care of, even if it means that he moves in with them. However if the girl and her husband show the same concern for her parents then the society will make fun of the groom and brand him as ghar jamai or househusband and make fun of his manhood.”
Next she asked me why as an educated open minded person I feel that such practices are acceptable? I had no answer and I am hoping that my readers would help me find some.

Email Fwd: Blood Clots/Stroke, STR e-mail

Normally any email forward goes into the trash bin, However with this coming for a doctor i know, i felt obliged to take a second look.

A lot of forwards are hoaxes with incorrect information, yes including the one with the number of Indians in NASA

The Email Forward.

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Wrong Number

CALL CENTER | CHATSWORTH, CA, USA

Call Centre Operator: “Thank you for calling. How may I help you?”

Customer: “How much for my daughter?”

Call Centre Operator: “Um…”

Customer: “She’s 16. It’s her first time. She needs training.”

Call Centre Operator: “Sir, I think you want the driving school, our customer support number is close to the local driving school’s number..”

Customer: “Oh, what do you guys do?”

Call Centre Operator: “Adult websites.”

Customer: “Oh…OH! Oh my God!”

How strict is too strict

A couple of times I have seen a girl walks into a disco in really modest clothes (at one time in a traditional muslim burqha) and completely change their dress in the ladies room. I have seen so many people lying to the parents about their wareabouts (esp. when you are in a late night party) is so common that I have even lost the count. I also know a couple of Indian boys and girls who are in a relationship for several years while their parents have no idea whom they are living with. On one occasion a girl even married and the parents came to know about it 2 years later.

However the question remains how much freedom should the parents give their children and what amount of say they should have in determining their path in life?

Should we follow the western philosophy that the kids are emancipated once they hit the teens and severe all tied with their parents? They take their own decisions and are not afraid that their parents might disapprove of it.

On the other hand in several families the kids are expected to seek their parents’ approval and even permission for every action they take. Sometimes this umbilical cord stays even after the kid has a family of his own and is financially independent.

I guess there are merits in both schools of thought and the best way is somewhere in the middle of the two extremes. The reason why I am beginning to ask this question is that often I see that the children do what they want to do irrespective of the freedom offered to them or the desires/wishes of their parents.

However by being too strict, a parent might stifle the kid and hence prompt it to hide their feelings, apprehensions and troubles. If the kid indulges in the risky behavior and hides it, is it a fault of the parent of the kid? I am not sure and hence this post.