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November 22, 2009

But what is it that you want?

Filed under: Thoughts — Tags: , , — Ankur Aggarwal @ 12:28 am

I was raised in an environment where we did not have much of a choice. The major decisions are made easy because in reality you are not taking them. Its governed by the norms and expectations of the parents, society, relatives and even teachers.

You study hard because the neighbor’s kids have higher grades. You speak English and not your mother tongue because that is a sign of being educated. After schooling you have no choice but to pursue engineering or medicine because it is hard to support oneself on art or sports. After the bachelors one has to pursue MBA. Not because they want to but because that is expected of them by others. Jobs, marriage, kids, house, cars everything is governed by one big question “What is expected out of me?”

Indians have a greater external locus of control than most people from other countries, however things are changing. It is easier when we are told by our family, spouse, boss or society what to do and what not to do rather than take a plunge ourselves. We judge our success not by how much happiness it brings us, but by the eyes of the others. Surprisingly the system works and the country is growing by leaps and bounds. However the question is when we are going to rise above the Maslov’s basic needs of materialistic success and security to pursue our passions. When are we going to take a time out to fully understand ourselves and take time to develop our hobbies and interests? The goal of life is not material success.

November 21, 2009

What keeps India together?

Filed under: Miscellaneous — Ankur Aggarwal @ 12:38 am

In Europe, I have met so many people who are really interested in Indian culture. They repeatedly ask me how is it done in Indian culture. I find it so hard to explain that there is nothing like a single Indian culture. For all practical purposes, each of the 28 states/regions of the country have totally different language, culture, tradition, history. Even inside a state, the rural India and the cities are totally different.
Two words have always amazed me:
“Dada”: In North India it means Grandfather, In the Eastern India it means elder brother and used to address a person with a lot of respect and social standing. However in the Southern India Dada is used to brand a notorious muscle man or someone who lives in the wrong side of the law and terrorizes the people.
Second word is the name of a loaf of Baked Bread. It’s called Double roti in the Northern Western Part of the country which means it is twice the size of the Roti (or the standard wheat dish) While in the south Western part of the country it is called ‘Pav’ or ¼ the size of the standard Roti. Incidentally the Roti in both the regions as well as bread are of almost the same size and shape.
Coming back to the discussion: It makes me ask the question what keeps the country together? Is it that Indians are too lazy that they don’t care about their governments and policies and want a status quo? I would not like to agree to that hence I tried to find some universally practices cultures and passion. The only 2 things I could find were our love for cricket and bollywood movies. But then is our rich culture so shallow that these two frivolous passions can keep us united?

November 19, 2009

Brugge or Bruges trip

Filed under: Travel — Tags: , — Ankur Aggarwal @ 1:31 am

Walking in the streets of Belgium and rowing in the canals of Bruges make me realize how important history is for Europeans. Even the cities bombed during the World War have rebuilt their cities in the way it had been for centuries before the wars. Even in cities where there are new constructions, residents have tried hard to give it the same look and feel as the historical buildings. Not only has this reinforced the visual delight of living in history rather than making the entire city look like a concrete jungle.
India also has several historical structures that are older and more majestic than what is seen abroad. However I still don’t know of any city where walking on the old city gives the same pleasure. Most of the old city have so crowded and have narrow streets that navigating there without the threat of being stuck in the traffic jam or your pocket being picked. The sanitation level of the older sections of Indian cities are low and often the streets don’t have sufficient sunlight, fresh air or even clean. The smell alone can drive people away.
The solution Indian government has adopted is to evacuate people from the ancient structures in the same of preserving these structures or public safety. In several areas government has even torn down the sections of our heritage in the name of modernization and infrastructure. However why can’t our antique buildings and their inhabitants co-exist the same way they do elsewhere?

November 18, 2009

ABCD (American born confused desi)

Filed under: Thoughts — Tags: , , , , , — Ankur Aggarwal @ 4:11 pm

One of the hardest things to be is being a second generation Indian immigrant. The parents still tend to have the same set of values and expectations that they witnessed in India 20-30 years ago, while the fantasy world of Bollywood movies show a kind of society that is quite similar to the west or their adopted country. They don’t realize that Hindi movies are a fantasy land and often bear little resemblance with Indian culture and society, while the parents don’t realize that over the past 20-30 years the culture and values in India have modernized quite considerably.

Indians unlike the folks from China and Middle East try extra hard to mingle with the local population of their new country. There a conflict of the values and culture which they need to have to be cool enough in front of their friends and what they are expected to practice at home.

Most likely it is a short transitional phase which most people in societies facing rapid changes and development face.

November 7, 2009

Propaganda and English

Filed under: Miscellaneous — Ankur Aggarwal @ 12:50 am

During the world wars German war machinery successfully manipulated the media (newspapers and radio) to rule over the greater Germany. Even this day counties like China tightly control what information/news reaches the public and what does not. If done properly and consistently over the years, this propaganda can successfully and dramatically change the beliefs, perception and the public opinion. Sometimes even to the extent that young german kids thought they were doing their parents a favor by reporting their activities to the Gestapo.
It was only now I have realized the importance of good education. The more one has access to international media (internet, newspaper, tv etc.) the more international languages one can read and write in, the harder it is for the government to poison and condition one’s mind.

Without access to international media and people with diverse opinions a person will not only be biased. What’s worse is that by accessing only the limited information, they would reinforce their perception. Net result is that everybody has a different view about the same thing, yet they all will be convinced that this is the right view.

November 6, 2009

Video photography

Filed under: Miscellaneous — Ankur Aggarwal @ 9:49 pm

I believe that video photography is a waste of time. Unless one hires a professional to record the moment, one of the family member would have to sacrifice him for the video. In order to get a good shoot the camera will have to keep rolling for the entire duration and that person would not be able to take part in the celebration. What’s worse is that even though it will be labeled as “My kid’s first step” in reality it would be like the 10th or the 15th step. This is because an amateur videographer typically has to witness a wow moment, break away and then go to retrieve the camera and request the people around to restage the entire sequence. Sometimes in their enthusiasm, people make hours and hours of video footage not realizing that most likely no one will ever watch the whole movie ever.

Still photography on the other hand leads only to a momentary disruption of the normal course of the party and the photographer can join the gang again. Also one can save, cherish and display the select portions of the zillion photos that were shot. Hence the chances that a particular photo is shared, preserved and viewed is more likely than an hour long video of a stupid birthday party.

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