I met this girl today, who wanted to have a drink at the college party, but did want to be seen pouring her own drink. So she asked guys to get her fruit juice laced with Whiskey.
I have bought a round or 2 of drinks to various girls, but somehow I felt really awkward carrying her glass.
1) First i thought, its because of the fact that I realized that she drinks: But I really don’t care, nor does it matter
2) Then I thought it might because I was not ready to spend 1-2 minutes that I spend in getting her glass… but its unlikely
3) Then I thought it might be because I was appalled by her attempts to mask her drinking problem (she did have 4 rounds of alcohol), but then I have seen people going to much greater extend for masking their problems/addictions… and this won’t list even in the top 10.
What do you think is the reason for me to feel so much awkward while helping her get her drinks.
Because you were bringing a drink to a girl masked in fruit juice.
Is it just me or that sounds wrong?
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don’t judge me.. its not as if i had laced her glass with Rohypnol….
she requested for a cocktail.. and thats what she got.
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Lol I am not judging you but giving you a reason why you were feeling uncomfortable doing so.
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maybe because u don’t drink fruit juice laced with whiskey
it isnt ur normal drink, and pursing is not ur forte
and as u say u dont want to judge her
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or be judged either
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hmm.. maybe as a child I had learned this thumb rule….
if you do any action which you are scared of acknowledging then its probably wrong.
moderate drinking is a perfectly healthy habit for me.. but definitely not for her… hence this conflict in values created that tension.
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so u found the ans to ur questiom so the matter is about morals
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yups :)all it needed was some free time to reflect
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